When I hear the word happy, it evokes many things inside of me. From an emotional standpoint, I think of blissful laughter, smiling, and companionship. From a physical perspective I think of health and good choices. From a spiritual perspective I think of peace and complete joy.
But what does happiness mean within the confines of your marriage? I believe this question is something only you and your spouse can answer. I also think it is important that you define what happiness means to each of you before marriage and continuously during your marriage. My marriage is better today as a result of doing this very thing.